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You make me SO mad!

“You make me SO mad!” she screamed at me through crocodile tears, then she turned on her heels and stomped off.  My six-year-old’s words hit a nerve with me.  Exasperated by her finger-pointing, I followed her and gently– through gritted teeth– reminded her that it was her actions that had brought down her undesired consequences.  […]

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Who’s in control here, anyway?

Some of you have probably heard this story (or a version of it) — I first heard it at a twelve-step recovery meeting, but its lesson is so important, it bears repeating: Jimmy was a young caterpillar who lived in a beautiful, lush garden.  One day, a caterpillar friend visited from another garden.  “Jimmy!” the […]

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